Step 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 - 6 - 7 - 8 - 9 - 10

Click here to see SafetyNet -- the book that shows parents and children how to guide and guard their children on the Internet.
Ten steps to Net safety.
Report inapropriate web sites with Net Scrubber.
KidShield news, reports and press releases.
Reviews of top parental control software.

U.S. and international political efforts to safeguard children online.
Reviews of family-friendly policies of top Internet Service Providers.



SafetyNet Step 6:
Never meet an online friend in person without a parent present

People often use the anonymity of the Internet to pose as someone else. It is easy to do, given the voiceless, faceless character of the Net. Examples abound of people misrepresenting themselves. In one of the more extreme cases, a woman fell in love with a chat companion and got married. Shortly thereafter she found out that her "husband" was really a woman (who avoided physical intimacy by indicating she was HIV positive). Pedophiles often pretend that they are children to gain the confidence of real children.

While your children obviously need to be aware of what can happen, be careful how you present this concept. Children are naturally free and open with everyone, and you certainly do not want them to have nightmares starring online fiends masquerading as friends. But losing a little innocence regarding their online pen pals is preferable to losing much more.

Because people may not be who they say they are, accompany your children to the first real-life meeting of any online acquaintance. To be safe, be sure to have this meeting at a public site. After you verify the person's identity, follow all the usual friendship guidelines your family employs.

-Back to Top-
rule_pg1.gif (8410 bytes)
Home | SafetyNet | NetScrubber | Politics | News | Links | Glossary | SafetySteps | Contact KidShield
1997-2002 All rights reserved.